Feeling the same struggles with emotional dependency and relationship patterns.

Checking my phone every five minutes, hoping they'd text.

Blocking them, then unblocking them an hour later "just in case."

Making it three days, breaking at 11 pm, then hating myself for resetting the clock.

But here's what I learned the hard way: 

you can't willpower your way out of neurological withdrawal.

I'd show up to client sessions with a smile, crushing it professionally—then lock myself in my car afterwards and sob for 20 minutes because I'd seen something that reminded me of them.

I was confident everywhere else in my life, except with them.

And I kept doing it. Different person, same pattern. Emotionally unavailable, hot and cold, kept me guessing.

Until I finally understood: this wasn't about them. It was about a wound I'd been carrying since childhood, and healing it brought a sense of peace I never knew was possible.

That's when everything changed.

I went back to the root. Found the exact moment my seven-year-old self decided "love means chasing someone who's leaving." And I healed it using the same tools I now teach.

That's why I created this work.

Because you deserve to break free from the cycle. To stop choosing people who can't choose you, and to feel empowered in creating healthier relationships.

You're in withdrawal from you ex and the solution live within the subconscious mind.

And I know exactly how to heal it, and you can too. Self-healing is possible, and it leads to a stronger, more whole version of you.